A few weeks ago I broke up with a man I thought was 'the one' and it was devastating.I
recently found out that the man that I've been dating for more than a year is
engaged to a lady he's been with for over three years.
When we met He told me that
he has been single for 18 months and I believed him.I got to meet his brother
and his friend,and they've never mentioned anything about him being in a
relationship. I was 19 when I met him and as this was my first relationship I gave it my all only to find
out that I'm just the other woman.
I found out about his fiancee on instagram,I
didn't confront him I just pretended as if everything is fine though I was
hurting inside.I figured that I had to deal with accepting that he's ENGAGED to
be married before i could talk to him.
As if the pain of finding out he was engaged wasn't enough I also got to find out on social media again that they are expecting
a child before the end of this year. My soul was shattered and the only thing I
could think of was committing suicide. It's hard for me to come to terms that
the one i gave my all to hurt me this way.
I had to break things off even though
I still love him and it's hard to me to hate him,I still feel like I deserved
it.Who dates a guy who is 12 years older and expect them to be single? I was
blind and I believed that he was working when he didn't have time for me little
did I know that when he would disappear for more weeks he was with his
When I finally got the courage to ask him about the fiance before I broke things off he denied everything. I had pictures and videos I showed him on Instagram that were posted recently by the fiance but he still denied it.
I'm hurt, but I am slowly healing. I've learned my
lesson to stay away from older guys.