Our expert says:
Apparently you wanted and needed a friend, but took a lover, instead.
Maybe continuing proximity is making you notice small points of irritation and allowing them to mount. Presumably this is exactly what they meant by the old saying that "Familiarity Breeds Contempt" Has he changed, or have you become more observant ? If you think there may be something worth saving, consider persuading him to join you in couples counselling ( which doesnt mean you thereafter HAVE to stay together, but at least enables you to make a more informed decision). HAve you tried to discuss this with hiom ( and he has presumably dfound small points of irritation with your habits too ) --- what does he say ?
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