Our expert says:
Interesting observations and thoughts, W. Maybe the women who favour the lads who are short of a few sandwiches, either like making sandwiches or don't like picnics.
Interesting point, too, about the degree of prejudice against accountants. I must confess that at parties, finding that admitting to be a doctor or psychiatrist too often led to complex and unwelcome discussions, I found that claiming to be an accountant usually ended tedious conversations.
You seem to see the choice between deliberate allowing yourself to be the Nice Guy you apparently naturally are, or a macho boor, as entirely about attracting women. Wouldn't you find it more pleasant for yourself, to live as a nice guy ? And as genuine rather than phoney ? WOuld the sort of woman who bought your phoney macho act really be someone you'd like to be with ?
Remember that when meeting others, they're usually much more impressed if you seem interested in them, rather than in any particular aspects of your own story. No need to dumb yourself down -- again, people tend to appreciate you more if you seem to respect their intelligence, whatever it may be
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