Our expert says:
This must be very unpleasant for you. It sounds indeed as though your husband is acting abusively, and with jealousy. You don't mention how long he has been without work, or why, but it sounds as though he is angry that he finds himself being dependent on you and your earnings, and on the financial support of your family. You don't mention whether he has any family of his own, but apparently they don't play a helpful role.
It sounds as though he has psychological and personality problems, which could probably be helped by skilled counselling, but ONLY if he accepts that he has problems and truly wishes to work them out and accept help.
His behaviour towards you, as you describe it, is unacceptable and inexcusable. So maybe you need to see a counsellor for yourself, to help you examine the alternatives available to you, and to make the best decision for your own needs and safety.
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