Our expert says:
Firstly I'm pleased to hear from another person who leads a healthy and wholesome life without spending time on "social" media. But though I appreciate the sincerity of your concerns, do recognize that this is a bit like saying that she plays Badminton, and you don't, and, having never actually watched her play, you're wondering what goes on during such games.
If you're really curious, I suppose you could start a conversation with her about social media and Facebook, revealing that you've been feeling a bit curious about how it all works, and why some people find it so interesting and time-consuming. As her about how she finds it, what she finds appealing about it, and how it works. As if she'd mind showing you her own Facebook site, and what goes on in such sites. Maybe even suggest you're thinking about opening a Facebook page yourself, and wondering what it actually involves : maybe she'd show you how to do so.
As I understand it within most such systems, you really only get full access to someone's "page" if you yourself are enrolled, and formally link to them as a "friend", so that's probably why you'd not otherwise access all of the site on your own.
The rules are set up by Facebook, or its rivals, though individuals can block some others from accessing their site, or by simply not "friending" them, not enable full access. Generally between a couple in a close real relationship, neither would object to enabling the other to access their page : from what you say, it may well be that as you have shown no interest in this, she hasn't thought of you in that context, and so has just not included you, rather than actively excluding you.
Se where such a conversation leads, and feel free to return to this forum ( with a NEW message, or I won't see it ) to let us know how tbings develop
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