Our expert says:
You really have no idea why you did it ? You were unconscious at the time, perhaps ? Do you know why you did it the other two times, but this time just puzzles you ?
Why did you feel any need to prove to this other guy that you really anted to be with him ? There are a great many ways in which any sincere wife, especially if she was not eager to have an affair, could respond to such a foolish instruction. You were not compelled, at gunpoint, to obey, surely ?
Maybe you needn't answer that, as you say you lie so much. Have you noticed the problems with lying ? You need an awfully good memory, to remember which lies you told, and you can't UN-lie. You can't say to anybody : OK, yesterday I lied to you about something very important to you, but today you can really believe me." It doesn't work.
So now, understandably, having somehow forgiven you twice, this time he's consulting a lawyer ? That makes sense. Did you think he'd just ignore this, again ? Was that really likely ?
Have the pair of you worked with a marriage counsellor before ? Why not ? If it didn't work before, and you went out and did it again and again, why would he want to try again ? Now, you say you're screwed. Does this make it 4 times ?
In what way do you think we could help you ? If he is consulting a lawyer, maybe it'd be a good idea for you to consult one too ?
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