Our expert says:
Of course you're right, that sulking and refusing to talk to each other never ever solved a conflict or family problem. And you're right too that he needs to get involved in some form of therapy or marriage counselling if things are to be really sorted out.
But life presents us with quite enough unavoidable pain, without us volunteering, as in a very important way you have, to adopt other people's pain and feel the discomfort that belongs to them, and not you.
Meanwhile, do see a counsellor or psychologist for assessment and help in dealing with your own personal feelings and those you are currently borrowing from others.
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