Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: Joe | 2013/04/22 When to settle down and focus on the kids When i was young i drank,smoked and did drugs and currently am clean and don,t do any of the above. I used to get into trouble that my friends were more importand than my wife. I now have three young kids and keep on having arguments because my wife wants to go out and do what i used to do with her friends and leave me with the children. She also hides a lot of things from me and i think that it will be better that i bring up the kids myself as i dont need her and accept this situation as is. We got divorced and she came back to me because she could not cope by herself. I have custody and am also finacially secure. Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions Decreasing CD4 count because of acohol Possible STI infection Weight loss after cancer Seer hande Maagpyn Seer hande Pain in knee Hip replacement Numbness and pins and needles in my arms and legs Is it a Rheumatology issue? Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? My son and I If a girl swallows sperm, can she get pregnant? He called me filth Spiked drink advertisement From our sponsors Discover treatments that can help reduce acne What can I do to reduce or remove acne marks? Dementia and Incontinence: what you need to know WIN a R2000 Skin Renewal online store voucher!