HE THINKS I’LL LEAVE HIM
I am a 47-year-old woman in love with a 58-year-old man. He
has a small manhood and it’s not a problem as I have accepted him as he is and
enjoy our love making. The problem is his insecurities. When I try to explain
how much I love him and that I wouldn’t leave him, he does not believe me. What
do I do to reassure him that I would not leave him because of the size of his manhood?
It’s a lot of hard work to try to heal a person from pain they
experienced in the past. This is his responsibility, not yours. You cannot do
this work for him. And if you keep doing his work for him, you will grow
resentful, angry and exhausted. He will never need to change. He is not hearing
you. Live your own life, showing your love. Let him know when you are bored
with the conversation. I recommend he goes for therapy.