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29 October 2010

Sexual superhero:partner practise

The next level of Direct Sexual Response (DSR) involves your partner. It requires communication, communication, communication and patience.

This is Step 8 of the Sexual Superhero programme for premature ejaculation which was developed by Jonti Searll.

Your partner is obviously aware of the problem and presumably would like to help. She has a vested interest in this. It’s a good idea for you both to read through the exercise before you start.

  • Get undressed, get comfy, use lubricant.
  • You are going to lie on your back, your partner can sit next to you, between your legs, wherever she’s comfy. She’s going to start stroking your penis.
  • When you get close to orgasm, not so close that you’re right on the edge, tell her to stop. Not one more stroke.
  • Take at least five deep belly breaths. Relax your body.Then ask her to carry on stroking you.
  • If you’re ultra sensitive, when she stops it’s a good idea to take her hands right off your body.
  • Repeat this at least five times. Then if you’d like to have an orgasm, ask her nicely.
  • When you’ve finished the exercise, talk about what you both experienced.
  • If you asked her to stop a little too late, and it became an anti-climax, don’t stress. Communicate more clearly, ask her to stop sooner.

 
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