Posted by: CP MOM | 2009/02/17


Problem with my daughter

I dont know how to handle this

My Cerebral Palsy daughter of nearly 12 has a little Minature Pincher of 10 months, before she had a female one and the got along so well so when it died I got her this male one.

She was given a hystorectomy last year May for obvious reasons, she had also started menstruating and is very developed for her age.

That'  s just a bit of history. Last week her care giver said to me that she found her in the back garden with her panties off and the dog licking and trying to mount her (sorry i dont know how else to put it). When I got home I spoke to her and told her this is not acceptable and and and - she'  s mentally at the age of 3. Sunday I caught her pulling her top down so that he can lick her nipple. Again I explained this is not acceptable.

Last night I saw her doing the panty thing in the bedroom, i then went back down the passage and walked loudly so she could hear me and she was pretending to watch tv - so she know what she is doing is wrong. I left and krept to the room again just to see her pull down her panties, pat on her privates and call him.

What am i to do ? Please give me advice ? Medication or what ? I am devastated.

Expert's Reply



This is certainly a big problem for you to handle and very difficult to deal with on many levels. Despite your daughter having had the hysterctomy she has continued with her pubertal development and mentally is not in a position to handle the situation. You need to discuss this matter with the gynae who did the hysterectomy as soon as possible.

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