Childhood Diseases

Posted by: Hilary | 2010/10/14


Gender orientation

Hi Doc

I have twin daughters 3 and half years old. The kidnergarten teacher has told me that the one twin keeps saying she is a boy and when the class is asked to divide themselves into boys and girls she always joins the boy group. The teacher seems to think this is something to be concerned about? Is it and if so, where to from here?

Expert's Reply



This is most probably just a passing phase and a bit of a game or play acting by your daughter. She may even be rather fond of one of the little boys in her group and she wants to be part of the boy's group for this reason. Keep her interested in play activities which little girl's enjoy when she is at home such as playing with her dolls and all of this should pass without any problems.

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Posted by: Candi | 2010/10/15

Hi There! My sister had the same thing! Her teacher caused such a up roar about it! Thing is - her maaitjie was a boy and they where both english and the school was afrikaans! So they did everything together! I dont think u should be worried!

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Posted by: Hilary | 2010/10/14

I forgot to mention that her best friend at her school is a boy, don''t know if this makes a difference

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