This kind of behaviour is rather unusual for a little boy of 4 years especially as he is carrying this through to school as well. It may just be a passing stage, but it it may also be the signs of a fairly common psychological problem seen in children called 'ODD' for oppositional defiant disorder. I recommend that you take him to see a child psychologist.
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