It is difficult to be sure about the answer to your question. Your son may not have an ADD problem at all and his behaviour may just be due to ongoing temper tantrums. Obviously you cannot continue to allow this to continue and you certainly cannot allow a 4 year old to hit and kick you because he cannot get his own way.Do not hit him as this will only aggravate his aggressive behaviour.When he starts with a temper tantrum immediately tell him to 'Stop doing that!' in a clear firm voice. Do not ever plead with him. He must know that you mean what you say. If he does not listen then immediately take him to his room and close the door. He must not be allowed out until he is quiet and until he says 'Sorry' He must stay in his room even if it takes an hour or longer and he must say sorry!If he does not say sorry he must return to his room until he does so. Do this every single time that he has a temper tantrum and he will soon learn that he must stop this behaviour. You can also give him any good quality Omega 3, 1000mg, supplement every day.
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