This is a very common problem. Your daughter is a little 'old' to still want to sleep in your bed, but the reason is obvious. She feels insecure in her bedroom and is looking for the security and comfort that she finds when sleeping in your bed. The original reason for this is the fact that you and your husband have separated and this causes her unhappiness and insecurity, all of which is perfectly understandable. Put her in her own bed every evening at bedtime. Read to her until she falls asleep. Put a night light in her room and tell her that this will help to get rid of the monsters. If she comes to your bed at night take her back to her bed immediately, comfort her for a while and leave her room. Do this every time she tries to get back into your bed. You need to be firm with her, but tell her that she is a big girl now with her own bed and she must sleep in it.
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