At this young age there is unfortunately no assessment that can be done to determine whether your son is ADD/ADHD. The fact that he can sit and colour or build blocks is a good thing, however, can he do these activities quietly or is there much running commentary or getting up and sitting down again? His seeming aggression toward others may be an area of concern, or it may simply be his way of demonstrating his independence. In either situation he needs to be taught that this is not an appropriate way to deal with conflict. Perhaps he should not get a treat at the end of the lesson if he has not earned it; this will teach him that concentration and hard work gets the reward, not simply being present (although initially he will resent this idea and probably act out more than before). Encourage him to play stimulating games, some that require much energy exertion like a treasure hunt over a large area, and some that require sitting quietly like a computer game (be sure to get something that requires a lot of thinking or he is likely to get bored, but not too difficult that he gets frustrated). Ensure you praise all his good behaviours to reinforce these as much as possible.
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