Applying good boundaries and consistent consequences for her behaviour will help. However, if she denies these things being her fault either she truly believes there was no other way to handle the situation or she is being manipulative in an attempt to shift blame. Giving her the tools to better deal with the situations she keeps being involved in will enable her to better handle situations - it will then be her responsibility to make the best choice and then deal with the consequences.
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