Our expert says:
Its not the healthiest possible evidence that he's ready to get well right now. But talk about it, gently, with him, and explore what he thinks it means, and why he doesn't see it as even more important to get well and be around to assist and support you and his family. Maybe it would help him to see a counsellor, some of whom have good experience of helping people deal with grief. Its always so sad when someone who obviously mneeds counselling refuses on the silly argument that they "don't believe in it". That's like saying that they don't believe in surgery, even if they have appendicitis. What he probably means is that he doesn't believe that he NEEDS it, and one can only gently nudge him in that direction
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