Our expert says:
Yes, it gets confusing and worrying when you get conflicting opinions. And if there is even the possibility of a cancer, any sensible person feels scared. Clearly, what is needed is to have the growth properly removed, by a good local surgeon, treating it as though it might be cancerous, and ensuring that the tissue removed is sent to a good lab as a biopsy for careful study under the microscope, which can decide clearly whether or not it is cancerous --- if so, what type it is, and if not, what else it is. Fortunately though skin cancers are quite common on the face, they are usually benign or at least slow to become really nasty, and can usually be cleared up more easily than you might expect.
And Maria is oh so right about using this situation to benefit all of you. lets move beyond that old-fashioned and mischievous idea that men are supposed to never be afraid --- only extremely stupid people might not be afraid. It is sensible to be at least somewhat afraid in risky situations, and used properly this is a source of strength than enables us to deal witht he risks correctly rather than dangerously ignoring them. let your son learn the more valuable lesson that real men DO feel afraid when the situation deserves it, but that they cope and face their fears --- and that they are brave enough to ask for and enjoy the support of family and friends when they need it.
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