Our expert says:
I suppose there are a number of possible reasons for this, many of which reflect a degree of psychological distress on the part of the women...
One is that she is only attracted to unavailable men as she is terrified of the possibility of commitment.
Another possibility is that she is excited by the idea of luring a man away from his wife - which would show her how very powerful/attractive she is. Such a woman is very insecure and goes to extreme lengths to prove to themselves that they are attractive/good enough.
I am sure there are other reasons, and none of these may apply to this particular woman. Perhaps if you try to view it as a sign of some kind of distress it might help with empathy for her - but whatever you do, don't try to rescue her or give in to it - that is very risky territory for you to go down...
Claire - SASHA
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