Our expert says:
Do work closely with your counsellor / shrink, to get through this. THough you feel devastated, this is actually not about you. YOu had the good marriage you thought you have, with just one significant aspect of your husband he didn't let you know about. He has presumably been latently gay all along, so it was in no way anything about you that led to him deciding late in life to more fully accept and act on that aspect of his nature. You are no less appealing to men than you ever were --- his decision isn't about you becoming or being unappealing, but about him deciding to yield to someone who appeals to him in the way that you, as a most excellent woman, cannot do.
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