Our expert says:
Of course the truth in any such situation as J's manipulative and unpleasant response when you left him, is that he COULD live without you, but didn't choose to do so without trying to manipulate you back with him. It wasn't your task to stop him from jilling himself --- that was HIS responsibility. Its not about what you did to J, but about what J chose to do to J. J needs to be in proper therapy with a skilled shrink, and not to be manipulating you every chance he gets. It sounds as though you then tried to have J and R simultaneously ?
I wonder what his psychologist would advise him about this ? DOn't rush into anyhing
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