Our expert says:
I understand that this is frustrating for you. Stress and fatigue can decrease the desire for sex. Sometimes men feel emotionally neglected and in competition with the baby. Ask some one to take care of your baby once a month and then the two of you have quality time together. Revive that 'bbrrrr-feeling'! You will find that initially you have little to say to each other (at this time your communication is most likely limited to 'how was your day? Did you buy bread? The baby did this or that today.. I paid the electricity bill'...etc.). Compliment him (when was the last time that you told him how handsome /strong he is, made him feel wanted for more than just sex? Be patient.You will most likely say that you are also neglected - and yes most likely you are also the 'nurturing incubator cook and bottle washer' at this stage. But keep in mind - we have the tools to get them going and you can make the marriage work for you. Just revive the dating game. Children grow up and leave home and then you still want to be married... DEidre - SASHA
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