Our expert says:
Sex with anyone else (male/female, friend/stranger) is usually outside of the marital agreement so I wouldn't encourage you to ignore it but rather try to understand it.
There is help available for both erection and ejaculation difficulties, but often the help requires both partners to be involved...so if this didn't happen, perhaps you could try again? Contact SASHA helpline 0860 100 262 (shared line with netcare 911, so don't be alarmed, just ask for the SASHA line) and ask for a referal to a professional in your locality who could help.
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