Our expert says:
It sounds like your issue seems to be a basic rejection of your body and sex. Yes, you can become aroused and desire sex, but you seem to be rejecting your body or yourself, and the idea of creating physical intimacy with someone else.
Ideally, you should see someone for a few sessions to help you with developing a better sense of your own self worth and accepting your body; and then working on your psychological and emotional block with regards to sexual intercourse.
In the meantime I would encourage you to masturbate so that you teach yourself the best way to climax in private. The next step will be to try this with your partner whilst being very mindful and staying in the moment so that all the judgmental thoughts are kept in check. Again you may need a therapist to help you to learn how to have mindful sex.
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