Our expert says:
Maybe after the period when your misery at home spilled over, people felt embarrassed to see you in tears and so obviously sad, and felt inadeqate and unable to help, so they got used to ignoring you, to avoid becoming involved in your grief ?
From your summary, his concerns were unfair, and an over-reaction to his selfish thoughtfulness in expecting everything to be subordinated to the pleasure of him and his drinking buddies. He has an alcohol problem , though he would probably strongly deny it. Man often get maried for exactly the same sort of reasons for which women get married. But why your husband got married, other than apparently expecting a subservient servant to run his drinking club, who knows ? Your concerns sound reasonable --- his behaviour sounds very childish.
Call Powa and talk with them, and would he eer consider mariage counselling ? It could make the probation sucessful.
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