Our expert says:
There is nothing whatever "innocebnt" about maintaining contact with one's mistress. Counselling is definitely indicated, and sheshouldn't wait for him to take the initiative, but grab it herself --- it is WITHiN the counselling that he needs to show his regret and his good faith towards their future. What she needs, you can encourage but you can't do it for her. At least she should see a personal counsellor, in the first instance, to work on what sounds like a very low self-esteem.
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