Our expert says:
Most things really worth doing are easier said than done, but they're still do-able. It's hard to admit that one has taken a wrong path, but real failure is refusing to admit it and change ; it is NOT failure to recognize errors and to correct them.
DO see a good local realistic shrink or counsellor, preferably one who uses CBT methods, to work on your self-confidence and neediness, so that you can feel more confident and happy alone, and thus less desperate when seeking someone who will be a valid and non-using companion for the long-term. Do NOT rush into ANY other relationship until you have sorted yourself out. You can create a "complete" family later, but that requires not instant marriages, but a confident and competent mom
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