Our expert says:
I think you really want to love someone, but this guy does not deserve your love at all. He is not showing any proper respect for you. He is using you, to help him to feel special and important, and sounds very selfish, thinking only of his own pleasure and not yours, his own lack of any apparent desire for a longer future, and ignoring what you want.
Don't wait for him to change - why would he want to change ? You can't MAKE him love you - nobody can do that. And in a way the more slavishly you try to show love for him, the less respect he has for you and the less reason he has to feel love for you.
This is probably as good as it will get - a relationship such as you describe stays much the same, but usually only gets worse. Move on, leave him behind to think only of himself, and find someone who deserves your love.
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