Our expert says:
Sorry Joe, I can't possibly give you a well informed decision given that I don't know enough about the situation (ie. has it really been ALWAYS or does it just feel that way?) and furthermore as a sexologist I know a lot about sex and not so much about being an agony aunt...there are many possibilities but your best bet is to just take a deep breath and ask one of the girls for feedback, rather than your friends! Fruthermore, it sounds a little like you are following some kind of 'formula' (e.g. don't speak about yourself, don't push for a kiss on first date, etc) and if this IS the case then you might be being a little robotic....in which case, relax, be yourself (not an image projected by popular men's magazines) and see what comes of that...Whilst the advice and 'formula' is not in itself a bad one, it is if it means that you loose yourself in the process!
Claire - SASHA
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