Our expert says:
He seems to prefer this relationship to be borderline bigamy, maintaining a range of women in his life like a harem. You may be No. 1 fiancee, but seem required to share him.
I don't understand the rather bizarre level of acess he provides to his ex --- what is that FOR ? Why should she NEED any access to your home ? Its hard to see why it wouldn't be preferable to be his Ex rather than his fiancee.
The counsellor sounds like an excellent idea, and the pattern of sessions planned makes sense, too. I can't tell you how to understand him --- that'll be the purpose of the counselling, and might not be easy to discover. Good luck --- and do return and tell us how it goes
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