Our expert says:
Many possible reasons, nonnie. Sadly, many of us get taught, in many ways, mischievous lessons --- such that we don't feel confident and comfortable on our own and with ourselves --- we don't recognize that we are good company, alone. We may learn not to think much of ourselves, to feel that we are incomplete, insufficient, unsatisfactory, unless completed by a partner ( and women especially get pressed with the message that a man is obligatory in their lives, and that they are not adequate alone). I'm not advocating a life spent alone, but that if you learn, with the aid of counselling, ( including the CBT format ) to like yourself and be comfortable and happy alone, you lose that sense of desperateness that attracts the wrong sort of men ( those seeking to exploit ), rather than leaving you free to find pleasant and good companions
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