Our expert says:
Men often seem to look for considerably less in a relationship than women do, and once satisfied, see no reason whatever to deepen it or extend it. If you could find everything you needed at your local supermarket, why would you want to go hunting for more ? You've said it yourself --- he is HAPPY with the situation exactly as it is. You're not. And it seems he was really hurt in a previous marriage and refuses to move in that direction. Why do you expect that he will give up a comfortable life-style now, and do what he feels is dangerous and with a high risk of being hurt, just because that's what you want him to do ? Accept things as they are, or move on.
I'm not sure that hunting on web-based sites is the best way to meet people, let alone the sort of guy you want, who will become serious about a deeper relationship.
Cheating won't satisfy your needs, and will make you feel guilty. Rather end this relationship, recover, maybe with the help of some personal counselling, and move on realistically.
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