Our expert says:
I suppose that to you, having long ago faced the issues of a sex change procedure, but for most people, maybe especially men, the idea seems scary. So though you sound like a very pleasant and attractive person, and you know you need to be honest about revealing the facts of the sex change when a relationship appoaches intimacy, ordinary men are likely to find the idea of a sexual relationship with a former man, disturbing. Partly it may be anatomical uncertainty about what is possible ; then, as many men have complex cocerns about homosexuality, they might well think of it as being homosexuality on their part to have sex or even emotional intimacy with someone who was formerly a man. I'm sure there are men who would love you for who you are some people following a sex change do indeed find such a loving partner. But I suppose they are relatively rare. And of course any ordinary man or woman in their 50's can also have troubles in finding a partner, without this added complication.
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