Our expert says:
How often must I say it --- office romances are usually a bad idea, and usually end in tears, Sounds like you had unrealistic expectations, and allowed him to use you --- so don't mourn the loss of something marvellous which was ac tually never as marvellous as it seemed at the time. Some offices would think it fine for a boss's assistant to waste compamny time planning HIS romantic retreat with his lover ; others wouldn't. But he is being tactless and unkind to ask you to do this for him --- proving that he is a Heel who you are well rid of.
I disagree with Me --- falling in "love" with the boss is not inevitable or something totally outside of your control. You allow it to happen, or you don't. I love Toffee's quote, which is well worth remembering.
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