Our expert says:
OK, so you've recognized a recurrent theme / behaviour which causes problems --- see a good local counsellor to work on changing this unhelpful pattern. You know, from the sound of it, that you don't NEED him back, and that your wanting him is irrational and not useful. Remember how unhappy you were with him, and the sense of relief when you were rid of him.
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