Our expert says:
It is very undertandable, in the situation in which you grew up, that you grew very reluctant to trust people. And you fled from a miserable home into an unwise marriage with a guy who cheated you, as a way of hoping to escape from the earlier miseries. You don't need to repeat the mistakes of the past, and this present relationship sounds excellent and surely no mistake. But you are allowing yourself to become too desperate, and too dependent on this guy, in a way that is presently limiting your chances of happiness. Counselling would be the best answer --- check out, for instance, what might be available through the Psychology Deprt of your nearest Medical school or major State / Provincial hpospital.
Don't Worry's comments are worth reading carefully. You are capable of finding lasting happiness in your relationships, once you learn to be appropriately suspicious of life, but no more than that ; to know that you can assert yourself and survive whatever happens, and to be loved, because you deserve to be loved.
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