Our expert says:
Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Hi Confused and thanks for this post.
It is very possible to be bisexual - don't let people try to force you to be either gay or straight - but be aware that it is possible for people to consider themselves bisexual if they haven't resolved their real sexual identity yet, or are feeling confused :) It does sound as if you're more comfortable with women but you don't tell us whether you're more sexually and emotionally attracted to women or to men.
The one thing that stands out about your post is the sense that you're seldom simply being yourself - you're either 'acting' or flirting? That could be due to a low-esteem or the fact that you seldom feel in control - that you try to please others by being who you think they want you to be in order to gain their acceptance.
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