Our expert says:
Your query hints at what a large part of the problem might be --- the auditing, like an emotional accountant, of how much the other person puts into the relationship, as a measure of how large your own investment ought to be. Unless you can give to the other person without counting the small-change of what you receive in return, you don't really have a relationship yet. As the saying goes, you have to give, to get.
And if he's shy in talking about love-matters, concentrate on non-verbal communication ! From your last message, it sounds like things are beginning to proceed well in this direction !
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