Our expert says:
But love, however else you define it, is a 2-way process, a joint venture --- so how does he believe HE is showing love to you > How is he creating the synergy he talks of ( if can't be done by one person ). And your joining him in acting out one of his grubby sexual fantasies has nothing whatever to do with love, and it sounds as though he is using one of the oldest methods of coercion in the book : "IF you loved me, you would do this" ; "IF you won't do this, you don't love me enough" NONSENSE !
You're absolutely right, what he proposes is illegal and immoral. Don't even imagine having him back unless he agrees to joi n you, first, in serious marriage counselling, to work on his sick fantasies ( which became sick when he tried to blackmail you into making them realities ).
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