Our expert says:
This friend sounds thoughtless, selfish and inconsiderate for expecting help for the relativel trivial issue of her move into the neighbourhood, to take precedence over your pregnancy problems.
Calling at the last minute and expecting you to provide a home delivery food service was incredibly selfish. This is nobody's friend, but a demanding person thinking her wishes should be commands to other people.
SMS her, explain that you have pregnancy problems, and need to receive rather than being able to give, aid ; and to ask her to call you directly rather than always trying to go through your husband.
Do NOT buy alcohol, as non-drinkers, just because she demands a drink - if she is so alcohol dependent, let her bring her own booze.
She is NOT a good person, and you are NOT being jealous or selfish - it is her who is bein monumentally selfish and inconsiderate. This is no friend. Of course you have an absolute right to say No to others when you don't feel up to it - and they have no right to feel upset by your refusal. Your husband doesn't seem to understans where is true duties lie, and needs to join you in teelling this greedy woman to hink of how she could help you, rather than demanding help from you
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