Our expert says:
Why are you dating someone who doesn't want a relationship ? Why, if he doesn't want a relationship, is he having regular sex with you / Why are you thinking of a baby with such a man ? ANd why does he spend 6nights a week at your place ? Isn't that some sort of relationship ? If you actually love each other, but he doesn't want a relationship right now until he is financially independent, that's admirable --- but why on earth would you want to have a baby which the pair of you can't afford ? By all means support him in achieving his dreams, emotionally at least.
I understand that you would like to help him financially, but if he doesn't want that, would it actually help him ?
And, as the teacher said in that great film The History Boys --- Behind every great man there is a woman--- with a bucket, picking up after him
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