Our expert says:
Presumably you can fairly easily check out whether he is indeed working late at the requirement of his boss and business, and whether others also work late or if this is a situation he has somehow created for himself. If he is inded working, you can encourage him to get better organized so as to have more time for home, you, and relaxing ; if he is not, maybe there is some reason to feel concerned. And if it seems objectively unlikely that he is cheating, maybe your suspicions tell us more about you than about him, and should be attended to within counselling.
But what a stupid idea to decide that merely because you suspect him of cheating, you should rush out and cheat yourself. If you suspected he was stealing from the company he works for, would you feel you ought to rush out and start shoplifting ? Encourage him to at least come home early enough often enough to join you in marriage counselling sessions
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