Our expert says:
Surely marriage counselling is really needed here ? Sounds like his vanity is pat of the problem.
But seriously, if you are sure he is having sex with other women as you describe, then you should consider refusing to have sex with him, on the grounds that he could infect you with HIV and other STD. What about your family, and his --- could they perhaps intervene helpfully ? Otherwise, consult a lawyer and make sure he is required to pay proper mainenance for you and the children, and that if necessary you get a court interdict forbiding him from threatening or harming you in any way
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