Our expert says:
If you'll check the archives of this forum, we get messages VERY like this at least once a day, sometimes several a day. What you describe does indeed sound suspicious. There's not really any way to resolve this other than by discussion between you, most likely to succeed if you see a marriage counsellor together
Its too early to tell the children if they are not aware of any problem so far.
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