Our expert says:
A very sad situation in which every party may well get hurt. You know it was not wise to keep the birth of his child a secret from him. As she is now adult, she and he can decide whether they wish to have any sort of relationship, and if so, of what sort. But if you had good reasons to breakoff your relationship with him years ago, they're probably still good reasons, added to which is his willingness to chat on and hurt his current wife. You have no need to take calls from him
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