Our expert says:
Dear Jupiter's Husband,
By Jove. Soon we may have the whole Pantheon present ! Nice to hear from you, anyhow.
From what you say, if there are even minor cultural / language differences, it can be difficult to understand fully when someone is being playful or flirtatious rather than just communicating straight-forwardly.
It sounds like, though your intentons may have been honest and honorable, maybe this other woman isn't being entirely pleasant, and maybe she is enjoying in some way the suspicions she has caused in your wife.
it sounds as if the situation that arose may have been innocent on your side, but that it did indeed look suspicious to your wife ( conversatons about business can usually be done during office hours, surely ). Maybe you did switch from using the home phone in the hope that this would be less upsetting for your wife --- but you can see how it could have looked still more suspicious to her. If you absolutely have to have business discussions with this woman out of office hours, wouldn't it be better for them to happen where your wife can hear that they're business and nothing more ?
Tell your wife that you love her, not only in words, but also in deeds. Explain to her what has ( and has not ) been happening. And you can tell the other woman that while you appreciate her help in regard to business contacts for your business, you are happily maried and don't want want to upset your wife who you love, so you don't want to have long conversations with her out of the office and office hours.
And otherwise, I think our regulars and readers have made their usual wise comments on your ps\osting, and agree with them.
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