Our expert says:
Suri, maybe you will be able to have a happy and wholesome relationship with this man, but not if you allow him to become so necessary to you that you weep and feel desperate if he adds 4 days to his holiday --- that sounds more like an addiction than a relationship. You have done so well in so many ways, recently, but this seems to be the next priority for you to deal with, and he's right that you need to deal with it.
Otherwise, in the love dept., you're like the swimmer, out of her death, who clings so desperately to the Lifesaver, that she strangles him !! It sounds like he is genuinely fond of you, but fortunately, without that desperate and addictive quality to your curent love for him --- so it's good that his love for you is different from the way you feel about him.
I wonder whether you are able to do what might be needed to show him how much you love him, as that might need you to work on lessening your degree of intensity of love till it's a bit less smothering, less frightening to the average nice guy. Try to enjoy being in Like, as well as in Love.
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