Our expert says:
Dealing with emotional issues mathematically never works, does it ? A pocket calculator does provide these answers. Part of the reason is that the values depend so much on what you personally and individually, do or don't value, and the right answer to your equation may be very different from anyone else's.
YOu seem to be describing a guy ( you seem to understand him rather well --- does he understand you ? ) who can be very pleasant and caring, and whose down-side isn't highly unpleasant, but a withdrawal at times when he feels he needs to be alone --- is it really too hard to agree to that ? With all due respect, compared with the horrors many women have to endure within a relationship, not holding hands in the mall, not sending SMS, really don't sound like massive negatives --- are you perhaps at times rather too needy, even demanding ? Is it at all possible that some of your expectations may be a bit unrealistic ?
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