Our expert says:
If you'll scan the archives of this forum, you'll find that variations on this question turn up rather often. Yes, it isn't at all unuual for a man who happens to love you NOT to say so. Men are particularly often bad at expressing their emotions, especially in words --- they may think that they ACT lovingly, and feel awkward about saying it. Women seem to find it much easier to say. And from your comments, this guy takes this all very seriously and sounds very fond of you. Think of it as though you are a bilingual couple, you speaking mainly Mandarin, and him speaking Finnish --- you are gradually learning to speak to each other. Neither is right or wrong, but you express the same feelings in different ways.
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